This is WAY too LONG...but it reveals a bit of why I've not been here for awhile. I've edited this to have the poems FIRST, since this IS Poetry Friday!
BALANCE (an acrostic)
Because the times
Are so tough
Lately
All we dwell on is the
Night;
Concentrate on the light
Embrace the balance.
by Donna JT Smith, 1/2022
Thanks for hosting Poetry Friday, Carol. I'm going to try to make it for Poetry Fridays this year.
Hmm. Upon publishing, I found this Draft post from July 8, 2021 that I didn't publish...I wrote it, but lost the energy to hit "publish". I find it interesting that BALANCE is included here...
_______________
For those who are here watching someone leaving.
This is not
the best writing, but I'm tired. And some days I cannot find the
words. My brain is on overload, making it hard to express myself - at
least without becoming an emotional wreck.
So I continue to try to keep my balance, stay afloat, plant a smile.
Thank
you for indulging me. I will continue to try to read and comment on
other writers', though I feel I am failing at that, and falling behind.
Missing You
While You are Here
I am walking on our love-worn way
where roses' thorns would
sting.
I am strolling on our stony path,
my unheld hand to
swing;
I am yearning for calm clarity
and peace of mind to
spring.
I am longing for the quietude
as sliding snails might
bring.
I am humming to the sky above
enticing birds to
sing;
And watching you step off the trail
for golden comfort's
wing.
I'll rejoice the day our routes rejoin
to rise before our
King;
But I'll hide for now in willow's shade
my thoughts as leaves on
string.
by Donna JT Smith, 7/8//2021
As many have said they are trying to do this year - or WILL do this
year - I am trying to find the good 2022 offers if we look. I can't say
we started it well... but I have not yet lost my temper during the
sewer line fiasco.
On Jan. 4 we had a new liner to the house
sewer line started. It had to cure overnight, so we stayed in a hotel.
It ended up that we
spent two nights and three days there, where I also homeschooled the
grandchildren as best I could. When they deemed the line good, we returned.
The house plumbing worked
fine...but our apartment above the garage didn't. That night we had a
plumber until midnight trying unsuccessfully to get water to drain.
The next day (Friday, the 7th) their master technician came
out. (Not to say "I told you so", but I'd mentioned more than once that
they needed to make sure the apartment lines were okay and that they
weren't bypassing them...I should'a been a plumber) and of course found
out that they had indeed lined the pipe right past the plumbing in the apartment.
(Sigh) Yup, putting the liner in, they had assumed... let's just say,
never
assume...and they bypassed the output lines from the
apartment.
They will be here Sunday morning to jackhammer our
garage floor removing sections of sewer line and replacing
with pipe sections with new openings...We are hoping that by noon on
Sunday we will have a functional home again.
So new word for this
year. BALANCE. There are so many good words out there. But I think
this year I want to balance my life better.
Here's the thing
that's been going on in the background with me...well, one of the
things...I've shared some of what I've been going through with my
husband's dementia with a few people...one more factor in why it has
been difficult to keep writing and interacting with everyone here. I
need more plates - this one is getting too full! It's important to
BALANCE those plates, BTW.
I am going through physical therapy
now due to my covid vaccines. I haven't said much about this, as I
don't want to discourage anyone from having their vaccines. But we
believe my son's heart, blood and brain injuries were due to his
vaccine. He's coming back strong, but we almost lost him a few times in
this ordeal in September (which started a few days after his vaccine
and is otherwise unexplainable by doctors).
My reaction began
with my first dose, but I didn't put the two together because it again
is not a typical reaction. I began with painful muscle spasms of the
legs and back when lying down or trying to get out of bed, and I would
get a terrible sharp stabbing pain in my hip/back randomly if bending or
sitting. I got my second dose, the pain became even worse and I could
no longer turn over in bed at all, and it was a slow, difficult process
to get out of bed. I was seen by a doctor who recommended PT. When I
got to PA I began PT, but couldn't do much because all motion was too
painful. I was researching what this pain could be and praying it
wasn't MS or a few other dire things.
With time, my pain began to be manageable, and no one said this was a vaccine reaction, so I had my booster.
Oh,
I so wish I hadn't. The pain that had begun to be tolerable, came back
with a vengeance - worse than before! I was trying to find any
position that would be comfortable for even a short period of time. I'd
even tried sleeping sitting up at the table, as the pain of getting in and out of
bed was unbearable. I was afraid I was becoming an invalid. I had to
prop my back up so I could lie on my side without using any muscles. I
moved carefully through my days...at any moment a movement could send me
into spasms and excruciating pain. The next doctor advised having an
epidural of an anti-inflammatory. I
opted to wait it out...hoping that the pain
would subside. I was really suspecting the vaccine by then and went
searching for more information.
It took a while because searching
for vaccine stuff is all about getting the vaccine or the typical minor
reactions. But finally I plugged in the right search words and found a
site where people were talking about what was going on with me...and
they were all suspicious of the vaccine and asking others if they'd had
this happen! Doctors were basically ignoring it. No one wanted to admit
that there are some people who should not have the vaccine. My family
is one of them. Even my daughter who had the J&J vaccine, one dose,
began to have the pain in her back. We never connected the two events,
but we did find it strange that we were both having difficulty lying
down.
I am again on the "past the worst" and improving side. I
still have some pain, go to PT, and use the TENS unit electrical stim
most evenings. But I'm not on pain meds and I can get out of bed pretty
well. The bouts of random stabbing pain are subsiding again. I can
pick up things from the floor again - carefully. I am starting to feel
like myself.
I cannot stand and hold a balloon out in front of
me...yet. I cannot walk a block...yet. I can lose my balance easily.
But I can sit in most chairs comfortably. I can go up and down stairs.
I can stand long enough to cook a meal. The feeling in my legs and
toes seems to be returning. I'm not pain free, but almost! PT is now
helping to build up my muscles again, that I haven't been able to use
for so long!
So BALANCE seems a good word for me. I want to
regain my physical balance, my emotional balance, my life balance. I
need to start balancing physically and balancing my time for me. Things
have been out of whack for long enough. I think for two years I've
forgotten to slap on more good stuff when the bad started to outweigh
it.
Thank you for allowing my rant and slate cleaning. I am
good. There's been lots of hard times these past two years, but we've
made it this far. I know there will be more ahead, but I hope to keep
the balance.
I've started by signing up for Sylvia Vardell and Janet Wong's anthology 101, 201 and 301...for ME. I need some happy me time to outweigh the times that have weighed me down.
But just so you know, I will not be getting another booster. I can't. I think it will literally kill me.
