|What manner of celebration is this?|
I'm having trouble with this today. Is it because often, the actual date for the even and our celebration do not occur on the same day? I began to think about my conversation with my daughter about how it is not important that you see the person on that special day, as much as you celebrate with them when you ARE with them.
With families spread over miles and years, it has been difficult to keep things rounded up neatly to do what is expected in the expected time frame. But as Christmas is not really December 25, and Easter doesn't have a set date... why do we care? The important thing is that we DO care, just not that it has to be some particular day.
I celebrate every day the fact that I gave birth to two wonderful children. I celebrate the fact that my husband was born, and that I was, too! The dates are not the important thing to me, so we sometimes wait until it is convenient to make the more "public" celebration when it fits.
There are so many ways that I find joy and celebrate, that I actually find regular days to be more celebratory than an actual special day. I'm feeling at a loss with this topic today. Maybe it is the personal intricacies and complications lately, that make me feel empty headed right this moment. Let me try a poem instead and see what comes of it.
I treasure ordinary moments
much more than special days
I want to make the most of all
avoiding hype and craze;
I breathe in deeply when I see
the ocean or a tree
I look around and see the birds
and marvel how they're free
no cares, no need
to send a card
beyond the yard
There's nothing in
the nest to wrap
Nothing to state
they're late for hap
A calendar does not exist
with anniversary, birthday list...
I smile to watch
the sun go down
and stretch on rise again
I stare at stars and peek at moon
while picking up my pen
to write a note, a word
or two and buy some Christmas gifts -
but "Look!" there snow that's piling up
where drafts blow making drifts
Then I want to stay inside
and watch it for a while
Or maybe go outside a bit
and build a snowman's smile
Can anything be better than the
family gathered round?
Who needs to have a reason
for love and joy's surround?
Give me the dew, the frost, the rain
Give me a grandchild's laughter
And I will be happy celebrating
Well into the hereafter.
by Donna JT Smith, 5/3/2018
You have a great day! I'm gonna have me another great day!
Yesterday we celebrated 80+ degrees in Maine by taking the motorcycle for it's first spin...off to the beach! Hopefully, tomorrow my husband will be on his bike, too.